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VenusNews » Ottawa
issue 4 . Fall 2002
Workshops
All workshops are held at the store, located at 110 Parent Ave. in Ottawa. Please register by calling 613-789-4646, workshop fee is $5 (+tax) per person.
Sex Toys 101: An Intro to the Wonderful World of Toys
For everyone
Tuesday September 10 at 6:30 pm
“What is it? What do I do with it? Where do I put it?” Anatomy, vibrators, dildos, lube and other slippery stuff: this workshop will give toy novices a chance to learn about different toys in a relaxed atmosphere. One hour, plus time for questions and discussion.
Sex Toys 201: Further Adventures
For everyone
Tuesday September 17 at 6:30 pm
Sex toy tips and ideas byond the basics, including fun things to do with household items. Once hour, plus time for questions.
G marks the Spot
For everyone
Saturday October 5th at 630 pm
Everything you’ve always wanted to know about the not-so-elusive G-Spot! We will cover history, anatomy, ejaculation and practical g-spotting tips. One hour, plus time for questions and discussion.
BDSM 101: an Introduction to Communication and Power Play
For everyone
Tuesday October 15th at 6:30 pm
An open discussion for those who are, or think they might be, interested in BDSM. We will be discussing some terms and definitions, as well as discussion and negotiation of boundaries. Safety and safewords will also be on the agenda. One hour, plus time for questions and discussion.
BDSM 201: Tips and Tricks
For everyone
Tuesday October 22nd at 6:30 pm
This is a beginner level workshop for those with an active interest in BDSM. We will talk about toys for sensation play, floggers and other spanky stuff, basic knot tying and rope safety, as well as using common household items in new and kinky ways. One hour plus time for questions and discussion.
Up Yours!: Anal Pleasure and Health
For everyone
Monday November 11th at 6:30 pm
Learn how to make friends with your butt! We’ll be dispelling some of the myths and cultural taboos surrounding anal play, as well as chatting about anatomy, safety, lube, toys, and general anal health. One hour, plus time for questions and discussion.
Sex Toys 101: An Intro to the Wonderful World of Toys
For women
Tuesday November 19th at 6:30 pm
“What is it? What do I do with it? Where do I put it?” Anatomy, vibrators, dildos, lube and other slippery stuff: this workshop will give toy novices a chance to learn about different toys in a relaxed atmosphere. One hour, plus time for questions and discussion.
Knotty Fun: An Introduction to Rope Bondage
For everyone
Tuesday December 3rd at 6:30 pm
Learn to tie knots and, more importantly, how to untie knots. We will also discuss safety, buying tips, and teach you how to tie enough knots to keep your friends tied up tight. This is an interactive workshop, and a six-foot length of rope will be provided for practice. One hour, plus time for questions and discussion.
Toy Review
Atomic Disintegrator
dildo, silicone (red, purple, silver), $34.95 (small) and $69.95 (large)
When I first looked at this toy I thought "Ouch! Who would want this bumpy thing inside them?" Then I got one and tried 'er out and - woohoo! Allfuturistic silver and sleek molded ridges, the Atomic Disintegrator looks a bit like something from a kinky Star Trek episode (hmmm... fantasy potential anyone??). I find the ridges kind of intense for fast in-and-out motion. But try placing the toy with one of those bumps just at the entrance to your vagina - gives you a nice ... something... to grip onto as you rock your way to orgasm. Or move it in and out slooooowly - the most fun Kegel workout ever. And it's got a curve just made for hitting the G spot. Oh yeah.
Book Review
Blue, Violet. The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure. San Francisco: Cleis Press, 2002.
Cleis’ fabulous Ultimate Guide series is known for high quality writing and good information about specific topics laid out in a clear and fun manner. And what a great idea. There are a few really high quality sex-reference books out there, but what if you’re comfortable with your level of knowledge about, say, safe sex, and all you want are some pointers on giving girls’ good head? Well, here you go. This book is written by a sex educator at Good Vibrations, one of the first educational sex stores in North America, which makes her pretty darned qualified to write the book on its own, but she’s also done extensive research and surveyed a whole whack of women and men. The quotes from these surveys are great, presenting a wider range of experience and opinion than just the author’s. The book is also laid out well, starting with myths that might prevent people from going down, through anatomy and basic techniques to those extras that make good oral sex great. Especially notable is the section on positions for injured or disabled people, a rare thing in most books. It’s a great primer for those new to the sport, or a great reminder for experts.
Violet Blue’s writing is quite chatty, and her personality shines off the page. I found the casual tone grating at times: in talking about the wonders of the human tongue, she writes that without it “we’d be up the proverbial creek without our little pink paddles.” An odd image, to say the least. Later on, she also talks about an “optimal position for parting the furry seas” of pubic hair around the anus. That actually made me cringe, and not because it’s crude or too blunt, but just because it’s a terrible metaphor. Who wants to envision their ass hair as the rolling waves of an ocean? And even though it’s written by a Good Vibrations sex educator and published by a company well respected in the field of sexuality, it’s best to be cautious about some of the information regarding STIs and anatomy, which was inaccurate, or at least poorly worded, at a couple of points.
Those are fairly small problems, though, when you compare them to the numerous good things about the book, not the least of which are the delicious drawings by comic artist Molly Kielly. Definitely a worthy addition to any sex positive library.
PS– Look for The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio, coming out soon.
New Toys!
Buzz 1
vibrating dildo (1.5" x 6.5"), silicone, colours: black, midnight purple, peacock
$69.95
Extremely smooth and slightly larger in the head than the shaft, the Buzz 1 is a good choice for those who want good length without much friction. Buzz 1 is harness compatible, quiet, and multi-speed.
Buzz 2
vibrating dildo (1.75" x 6.5"), silicone, colours: black, midnight purple, peacock
$79.95
Extremely smooth with generous girth and a head that is just slightly larger than the shaft, the Buzz 2 is a good choice for those who want fullness without much friction. Buzz 2 is harness compatible, quiet, and multi-speed.
Echo
vibrating dildo (1.5" x7"), silicone, colours: ambrosia, black, midnight purple
$69.95
Deep ridges and a pronounced head make the Echo a wild and bumpy ride. For fabulous g-spotting, use the ridge under the head against your spot. The Echo is harness compatible, quiet,
and multi-speed.
Zing
vibrating butt plug (1.5" x 4.5"), silicone, colours: black, copper, midnight purple
$49.95
Finally- a vibrating, silicone butt plug! The Zing's small neck compared to its wider body gives this plug excellent grip. Small ridges add to the appeal, adding a some texture to a toy that is still
very comfortable to use.
Stretch Ring
cockring, latex, colours: pink, purple, clear
$7.95
A non-adjustable stretchy ring to fit around your cock or your cock and balls. Stretches from ½" to 3".
Art and the Artists
Septermber and October: Lisa Lafontaine - Lisa’s work runs the gamut from fantasy comic characters to nature photography. An eclectic mix of unusual styles.
November and December: Shastan - this is Shastan’s third showing at Venus Envy Ottawa, and we’re very pleased to have her back.
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