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Venus Envy Advisor
The one and only Patrick Califia has agreed to be our sex and relationships oracle and answer questions submitted by visitors to our web site. We're taking questions as of right now; look for his weekly responses starting at the beginning of October.
Patrick is a well-known sex-radical activist, writer of cutting-edge erotica, and family therapist. He has been an advice columnist for both The Advocate and Girlfriends magazines.
If you've read his collected advice columns in The Advocate Adviser, or his trenchant personal/political essays in Public Sex, Sex Changes, or Speaking Sex to Power, you'll know that Patrick is well-informed about the vagaries of the human heart, the mysteries of the libido, and how to pursue your desires—whatever they may be—safely, responsibly, and passionately.
Come on down to the website at www.venusenvy.ca/advisor and ask away!
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Welcome Back Students!
It's an exciting time of year, everyone getting back to classes and other projects. Venus Envy has decided to make going back to school even more exciting! All students now receive 10% off all toys (except leather gear) all year round. As well, students, seniors and the under-employed can attend any of our workshops for half price.
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Instore Events
- Workshops are held at the store, located at 110 Parent Ave. in Ottawa.
- All participants must be 18 or older.
- Some workshops sell out weeks in advance, so register as soon as you can.
- The workshop fee is $20 (+tax) per person ($10 for seniors, students, and limited income).
- All participants receive 10% off any purchases made after the workshop.
- You may pay by phone (613 789-4646) or in person.
- If you have registered but are unable to attend, we need 24 hours notice or your fee is forfeit.
- Some workshops specify an audience (women or men, for instance). "Women" includes trans women; "men" includes trans men.
| September 7, 2004 For everyone | Sex Toys 101: An Introduction to the Wonderful World of Toys |
| "What is it? What do I do with it? Where do I put it?" Anatomy, vibrators, dildos, lube and other slippery stuff: this workshop will give toy novices a chance to learn about different toys in a relaxed atmosphere. 1.5 hours |
| September 13, 2004 For everyone | Erotic Talk: Getting What you Want By Asking For It |
| Know what you want, but not sure how to get it? Whether you're not sure what words to use, or how to start spilling them out of your mouth, this workshop will give you ideas on how to make talking about sex just as great as doing it. 1.5 hours |
| September 20, 2004 For everyone | Going Down: A Guide to Fellatio |
| If you're interested in licking boys' bits, but aren't sure where to start or what to do once you get going, this workshop is for you. From basic anatomy to tips for the advanced, this workshop will cover a wide range of information about giving head. 1.5 hours |
| October 5, 2004 For everyone | Going Down: A Guide to Cunnilingus |
| This workshop will cover anatomy, technique, communication skills and tricks to please your lady with your lips. And tongue, and teeth, and... 1.5 hours |
| October 18, 2004 For everyone | Knotty Fun: An Intro to Rope Bondage |
| Learn to tie knots and, more importantly, how to untie knots. We will also discuss safety, buying tips, and teach you how to tie enough knots to keep your friends tied up tight. This is an interactive workshop, and a length of rope will be provided for practice. 1.5 hours |
| October 23, 2004 For everyone | Hypoactive Sexual Desire - Wanting to Want |
| The lack of sexual desire, known clinically as hypoactive sexual desire
(HSD) is generally recognized as the most common sexual problem in North
America. Recent studies have shown that it affects almost 20% of men and
33% of women. There is no quick fix for HSD. The introduction of
Viagra and its kin has been a remedy for arousal, not desire, and offers
little comfort to a couple seeking to ignite and align the fires of
their desire. This workshop will present a perspective enabling participants to better understand sexual desire as it relates to: the couple's relationship, sexual satisfaction, personal preferences, and the asynchrony that occurs between partners. "Wanting to Want" is facilitated by Greg McCrea and Rosemary Gravelle; both are certified clinical sexologists working through the Limerence Centre for sexual and relationship therapy. For more information about Rosemary and Greg as well as the Limerance Centre please check www.limerencecentre.com. Please note that this workshop is for couples only. |
| November 2, 2004 For everyone | Toys For Boys |
| Join us for an introduction to sex toys for men. We will be covering basic male anatomy as well as discussing the joys of masturbators, cock rings, anal play, lube and more! 1.5 hours |
| November 15, 2004 For everyone | Introduction to BDSM |
| This is a beginner-level workshop for those with an active interest in BDSM. We will discuss some terms and definitions, communication and negotiating boundaries, safety and safe-words. We will also talk about toys for sensation play, floggers and other spanky stuff, basic knot tying and rope safety, as well as using common household items in new and kinky ways. 2.0 hours |
| November 29, 2004 For everyone | G marks the Spot |
| Everything you've always wanted to know about the not-so-elusive G-Spot! We will cover history, anatomy, ejaculation and practical g-spotting tips. 1.5 hours |
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New Stuff
Beehive
vibrator, jelly vinyl, translucent purple, $79.95
The ridges covering the vibrating head of the Beehive give you lots of friction with your buzz. The soft material has a very sensuous feel and the bendable shaft ensures you can reach all your favourite spots.
Flash
Dual vibe, jelly vinyl, translucent pink, $119.95
This new dual vibe will light up your life! Along with the changing light show comes a bendable shaft, tracked beads for lots of friction and a slightly more gentle vibrator than many of the dual vibes on the market. It also reverses direction at the push of a button!
Titan
Plastic vibrator, $34.95
If you ever wished that the Water Dancer was just that much stronger, your wish has now been granted. A little longer, a little louder, a heck of a lot more power.
Billy Down (small)
100% silicone butt plug, $34.95
A fantastic new silicone plug made by Happy Valley Toys right here in Canada. On the smaller side with great grip and a rectangular base, this little fella was made to stay in place comfortably.
Randy
100% silicone dildo, $99.95
The biggest dildo we carry; it's hard not to feel reverent in front of Randy. In a playful, but completely serious way, of course. Randy is short and fat and bigger than you might even be imagining!
Mr. Right Packer
100% silicone packing dil, $69.95
For all you gender benders who are sick of their dicks wearing out so soon, Mr. Right's silicone nature makes him durable enough for everyday wear. He's ultra-realistic to boot, so he'll put a little swagger in your swing.
O'My Clitoral Stimulating Gel
1 ml, $3.95; 14 ml, $19.95
The menthol in this gel will make the blood rush to your clit. And that's never a bad thing. Give yourself a head start with just a dab and a rub!
Bliss Lube
4 oz - $13.95
This is a petroleum- and paraben-free lube designed to maintain the pH balance of your coochie. Slick and long-lasting with a hint of vanilla
The Toy Bag Guides
books, $13.99 each
New from Greenery Press, the Toy Bag Guide series has started off with four subjects: Canes and Caning, Clips and Clamps, Hot Wax and Temperature Play, and Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies. For each of the play topics, there's a brief introduction to why one might want to, say, drop hot liquid over one's beloved. Each book also has a section on safety concerns and some tips on technique and equipment. Dungeon Emergencies and Supplies has several chapters detailing common problems, and would be a handy reference book for any dungeon (portable or permanent). A welcome addition to the Greenery line of books.
Sweet Action Magazine - Porn for Girls
Issue #2, $11.95
Finally, a magazine for straight girls filled with all those lanky hipster boys you already know or want to know. Tattoos, messy hair and big dicks, music reviews, interviews, and pot recipes; Sweet Action has it all.
Pin Up Lunch Boxes
$34.95
Who doesn't want to look under a naughty girl for a dildo? Use a fun lunch boxes to store your favourite toys, or take it out on the town to rave reviews.
Ginger Toffee Bath Truffles
2 for $8.95
Sadly, these aren't edible. But everyone will want to nibble on you after your bath! Made with natural ingredients, your skin will be smooth as butter when you're done.
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Art Shows
September and October
Caroline Moffat, "Foundations"
Foundations is a series of prints in stoneware clay by artist Caro Moffatt.
Her subject matter is intimate clothing, sexual identity, labels, and sexual
power. The pieces are highly textured and resemble etchings and fossils.
The juxtaposition of these foundation garments with identity labels
reference the history of lesbian and queer sexuality, the ongoing sexual
revolution, and identity politics
Vernisage Saturday September 11, 6-8pm
November and December
Andrea Harper, "Bare Flesh"
Oil Paintings of women's bodies in tranquil poses cropped at different parts of the body.
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Community Events
Vazaleen, a queer dance riot
at SAW (67 Nicholas)
Friday September 10th at 9pm.
Contact vazaleenottawa@archive.com for more info
Ladyfest Ottawa
featuring punk rock, spoken word, video, art, workshops and more!
Friday September 17th - Sunday September 19th
www.ladyfestottawa.com
Moist Magazine
Submissions wanted! Moist, a locally produced erotic magazine, is looking for fiction, poetry, and photographs.
subs@moist-erotica.com
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