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August 2009

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Upcoming special events

We are pleased to announce a whole bunch of great visitors and performers coming to Venus Envy over the coming months. Look for more info below about events featuring:

Pride Week Events

Pride Sale at Venus Envy

The most fabulous day of the year at Venus Envy—Pride! See all your friends and pick up pride gear and sex toys at 20% off! (Sorry, but leather gear is not included in the sale.) The first 25 customers to make a purchase get a free gift!
Sunday August 30
12-6pm

Queer/Trans Writers of Colour & Indigenous Writers

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Agitate! presents a night of performances and discussion. We'll begin the night with an impressive line up of performers and finish with an engaging panel of writers and poets, showcasing artists of colour and indigenous artists in celebration of Pride!

Often writers of marginalized identities face challenges in representing and publishing their own points of view coupled with the threat of their voices being tokenized and co-opted in the process. Featuring both emerging and established writers from Ottawa and elsewhere, we will be discussing issues of representation, intersectionality and how identity and experience are expressed in their craft.

Confirmed so far are Rob Friday and Kalyani Pandya from Ottawa, Nalo Hopkinson from Toronto, and Trish Salah from Montreal.

August 20th
Doors at 6:30, Performances at 7pm, Panel from 9-10pm.
Montgomery Legion Hall (top floor) 330 Kent St.
$10—$20 sliding scale (all proceeds go to Migrant Trade Union in South Korea)

This event will also be a fundraising effort for the Migrant Trade Union (MTU) in South Korea. MTU is a union of documented and undocumented migrant workers in South Korea, the only union of its kind in the world today. The MTU has joined in the struggle of GLBT people in South Korea, including defending the needs of its own GLBT members. Agitate feels it is important to connect our work with the struggle of other racialized people in the world, especially as the rights of migrant and undocumented workers in Canada continue to be largely ignored.

THE GREAT INDISCRETION

Ladyfest Ottawa and Venus Envy Presents:

THE GREAT INDISCRETION!

Featuring:

Montreal's Drag King Collective – The Dukes of Drag

And Ottawa's Favorite Sexy Satirists – The Sexual Overtones

The Great Indiscretion, as performed by the Dukes of Drag and the Sexual Overtones, is a cabaret style show that will make you want to sacrifice your clothing for the greater good. I can't think of a sexier way to get through an economic crisis!


Location: Bronson Centre – Mac Hall
Date: Saturday August 22nd
Time: Doors at 8:00 Show at 8:45
Tickets available at Venus Envy $10
Proceeds to Ladyfest Ottawa and the Venus Envy Bursary Fund!
19+


Go to www.ladyfestottawa.com for more details.

Divergence Movie Night—"She's A Boy I Knew"

Vancouver filmmaker Gwen Haworth documents her male-to-female gender transition partially through the voices of her anxious but loving family, best friend, and wife. Finding self-empowerment through self-representation, Haworth's feature debut is a comic, heartbreaking, and uplifting autobiography that breaks away from marginalized depictions of transsexuals that populate mainstream media by focusing on a family whose bonds unexpectedly strengthen as they re-examine their preconceptions of gender and sexuality.
70 minutes
Tuesday, August 25th
Doors 7pm, movie 7:30pm at Club SAW, 67 Nicholas
Free admission, $5 suggested donation.
flyer: http://divergencemovienight.com

Reading Out Loud 4!

Venus Envy presents Reading OUT Loud, a celebration of GLBT literature. Join host Megan Butcher and other local famous and infamous queers as they read some of their favorite passages at the fourth annual Reading Out Loud.

Readers this year include activist Nikoo Boroumand, HIV/AIDS prevention outreach worker, Corey Wong, spoken word artist Luna Allison, radio personality Michael Bardwaj, and wordslinger-for-hire Faye "Festrell" Estrella.

Wednesday, August 26th, 8pm
Venus Envy, 320 Lisgar Street
This is a free event but donations to the VE bursary fund are most welcome!

Certain Sort—Pride!

Certain Sort is a dance party and lounge for all kinds of queers!
Shanghai Restaurant on Somerset Street.
DJ CPI and friends!
Friday August 28rd, 10pm
$7 at the door
19+
All proceeds to the Venus Envy Bursary Fund!

Ottawa Dyke March—2009!

The Ottawa Dyke March is an annual grassroots initiative organized by a small group of women who are committed to providing a welcoming and fun space for queer women, their families, friends and allies. This annual event is an opportunity for women to participate in a grassroots initiative that celebrates lesbian, bisexual, queer and trans women. Our message is explicit: ”We stand up for women's rights, we oppose racism and discrimination in any form, and we encourage women to stand up for their rights.”

Our theme for 2009 is "Public Display of Affection".

Join us on August 29 at 1:00 pm at the Human Rights monument on Elgin Street and help make it happen!

March Route: Elgin to Laurier, West to Bank St., South to Somerset, East to Elgin, South to Jack Purcell Park.

Picnic and Performance event: starts at 3pm—5$ suggested donation

Host: Mikki Bradshaw

Performers:
Wet Nose Hero
People You Know
Pamela Dwyer
Claudia Larouche
Uncertain Soul

dykemarchottawa@yahoo.ca

Womyn's only Dance & Cruise Night!

Womyn's only Dance & Cruise Night!
Your ticket includes:

Snacks, free parking, pizza available after the cruise (including vegetarian), great music provided by D.J LIX w/special request hour, and 50/50 draw, prizes & more!

Saturday, August 29th 8pm – 11pm

ONLY $30!

For Tickets & Cruise Information:

DawnSummers@live.ca

Leave a message @ 519 720 8424

or purchase your tickets @ Venus Envy
320 Lisgar Street (cash only)

Store Events

 

MIGHTY REAL with Lynnee Breedlove and Silas Howard

An evening of dueling solo shows! Lynnee and Silas of notorious dyke punk band Tribe8 are on tour again, ten years later, this time minus chicks and guitars. Both writers, directors, and musicians, Silas is a real musician/director and Lynnee is a poser. Silas makes 50-Cent videos and Lynnee is an improv comic. Silas is poignant and handsome, and Lynnee is funny and ugly. Always disarming, alarming, and keeping you on your rocker boot toes, both trace queer history, examining its impact on their lives as transmen today, with interdisciplinary comedy and theater.

Sunday September 20, 7pm
Venus Envy, 320 Lisgar St, Ottawa
Suggested cover $10, pay what you can.

For more information, see the full writeup.

 

FEMALE EJACULATION AND THE G-SPOT

FEMALE EJACULATION AND THE G-SPOT
A seminar with Deborah Sundahl

The G-spot is the female prostate. All women have one, as do all men. Therefore, all women have the ability to ejaculate!

Learn about female ejaculation's ancient history, current scientific studies, where the G-spot is located, how to have a G-spot orgasm, and how to get this wonderful feminine fountain flowing! Open to both men and women, Deborah's Power Point lecture with pictures, movie clips and Q&A will tell you all you need to know about female ejaculation and the G-spot.

Friday, October 9th, 2009
8:30 pm
$25/$15—please call 613 789 4646 to register

Female Ejaculation and the G-spot

Female ejaculation expert and author Deborah Sundahl is a female ejaculation pioneer. Her book, Female Ejaculation and the G-spot, and her video line titled: "The Female Ejaculation Sex Education Series™ draws on her 22 years experience, research and instruction on this important topic of female sexuality. She continues to be a spokesperson for female sexuality and an advocate for sex education.

Book Review

Female Ejaculation: Unleash the Ultimate G-Spot Orgasm

There are only two female ejaculation books on the market at the moment. One is pretty bad, one is quite good. Read more to find out which is which.

Reviewed by Megan Butcher

Top Love Taps

Every Friday, sex educator and author Patrick Califia answers a question from our customers on the Venus Envy website as the Venus Envy Advisor. This is a very popular feature of our site, but we thought it would be fun to bring you the 'best of' every newsletter. The letter below was our favorite from the past couple of months—enjoy!

I'm a lesbian who has always liked big women. I feel so cautious about writing to you because I don't want to reinforce any stereotypes or get ridiculed. But to me, there is nothing hotter than a woman of size who is not ashamed of her body. The problem is that my current lover just doesn't believe my erotic interest in her is genuine ... » read the full question, and Patrick's answer

Top Love Bites

And every Thursday, burlesque star and sex educator Sasha answers a question in her "Love Bites" column. The letter below was our favorite from the past couple of months—enjoy!

I am a straight man who has long fantasized about sex with another man. I often go online to chat rooms to cruise anonymously but have never carried the fantasy further than that. I am interested in pursuing something in person but have never, no pun intended, had the balls to do so. I feel like a bathhouse would be a good place to start ... » read the full question, and Sasha's answer

Workshops

 
Aug. 24, 2009
6:30pm
Toys for Queer Girls - FREE!
cost: $0.00 (no sliding scale)
audience: women
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Aug. 25, 2009
6:30pm
Toys for Queer Boys — FREE!
cost: $0.00 (no sliding scale)
audience: men
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Sep. 14, 2009
6:30pm
Going Down: A Guide to Fellatio
cost: $20.00 (limited income $10.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Sep. 21, 2009
6:30pm
I'm Coming! A Guide to Women' s Orgasm
cost: $20.00 (limited income $10.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Oct. 5, 2009
6:30pm
Erotic Talk - Talking Dirty for Women
cost: $20.00 (limited income $10.00)
audience: women
» details
 
Oct. 9, 2009
8:30pm
Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot with Deborah Sundahl
cost: $25.00 (limited income $15.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Oct. 13, 2009
6:30pm
Take That! An Introduction to BDSM
cost: $20.00 (limited income $10.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Oct. 20, 2009
6:30pm
Going Down: A Guide to Cunnilingus
cost: $20.00 (limited income $10.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Oct. 27, 2009
6:30pm
The Guide to Getting it All - with Charlie Glickman
cost: $25.00 (limited income $15.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Oct. 27, 2009
6:30pm
Going Down: A Guide to Fellatio
cost: $20.00 (limited income $10.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Nov. 3, 2009
6:30pm
I'm Coming! A Guide to Women' s Orgasm
cost: $20.00 (limited income $10.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Nov. 23, 2009
6:30pm
Going Down on Everyone
cost: $20.00 (limited income $10.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Dec. 1, 2009
7:00pm
Midori JoyStick Secrets: How to Thrill a Man with Midori
cost: $25.00 (limited income $15.00)
audience: everyone
» details
 
Dec. 2, 2009
8:00pm
Bedroom Burlesque and Seduction for Beginners: Wiggle, Jiggle, Take It Off with Confidence!
cost: $25.00 (limited income $15.00)
audience: women
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