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boy toys
Men can use a bewildering variety of sex toys, including vibrators (penises and testicles really like vibration!) and dildos or other butt toys (hello prostate!). The "boy toys" here, however, are specifically designed to be used on the genitals, and so deserve some closer consideration.
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Sex Toys & Disabilities
Cock Rings
Most men wear cock rings around both the base of the penis and the scrotum, which enables the ring to restrict blood flow out of the erect penis. It's usually easier to put a ring on when flaccid, and since most rings close with either snaps or a sliding closure, you'll want to be careful of (or trim) your pubic hair.Why wear one? The circulation-restricting effect tends to prolong erections and orgasms, and the experience of pressure under and around the scrotum adds a whole new dimension to other kinds of stimulation. Note that putting pressure on these sensitive bits isn't something to take lightly, won't cure erectile dysfunction, and may be uncomfortable for some. It's a good idea to use highly-adjustable rings and ease into their use until you're sure that a cock ring is for you. There are many versions available, from basic adjustable loops of latex to elaborate cock cages, and rings with ball stretchers and ball separators. As the testicles can be extremely sensitive (something most men learn early in life), playing with them can be very rewarding, but should be approached with a light touch ... at least at first.
Vibrators
The vibratings rings we offer in this section of the catalogue take the form of bullet vibes in latex sleeves of various kinds that fit around the penis (or a dildo) and offer extra stimulation during sex. This design allows the vibration to stimulate the base of the penis and the testicles. Many other kinds of vibes can also be fun for guys, so don't feel restricted to the selection in the Boy Toys section. Dolphin-shaped vibrators can be for guys too!Masturbators
Real silicone masturbators haven't hit the market yet, and the firm texture of silicone makes this unlikely to happen. That means keeping a few things in mind about using masturbators. First: never use one with an oil-based lube. All of these toys tend to lose some of their firmness and "grip" over time, but using oil-based lube on them will make this happen FAST. Second: we suggest a light-consistency lube such as Probe Lite or O'My because some men find that thicker lube isn't slick enough.The stimulation these toys offer tends to be enveloping and gentle because the latex absorbs the firm pressure exerted by your hand. They are great for some variety in your masturbation, and offer a comfortable way to keep solo sex going longer.
Materials
Silicone is hypo-allergenic and non-porous, making it a snap to clean and easy to share. Silicone toys may be used both anally and vaginally with only a good washing with hot soapy water in between. Silicone also warms quickly and maintains heat so it's more comfortable more quickly. Silicone is so hardy that you can boil it for a few minutes for extra cleanliness or throw it into the dishwasher if nobody objects. The only thing that will really harm silicone is a knife—and it shouldn't be used with silicone lube. {more about silicone}
Jelly Rubber is porous and has a chemical smell that some find unpleasant. Though jelly rubber isn't as long-lasting as silicone, it is cheaper and gives you a chance to experiment with dildos without breaking the bank. Because jelly is porous, we recommend that your jelly toy not be shared or used both anally and vaginally unless you are willing to use it with a condom each time. That way bacteria and odor don't have a chance to be trapped in the pores of the toy. If that isn't practical for you, then we suggest you invest in a toy cleaner such as Foreplay and use it religiously. Just don't forget that jelly is a short term ride, not a long-term relationship. There are some concerns with toys that contain pthalates, check out this article for more information.
Cyberskin is a new material, and is a combination of silicone and PVC. It offers a very realistic texture but is quite porous. Cyberskin toys should be used with a condom and should be powdered with corn starch after being washed.
Hard toys such as plastic, acrylic, and glass can be fun, especially for g-spot play where a lot of pressure is nice or necessary. On the other hand, sometimes they can feel too hard, and the larger toys may be uncomfortable at times. The glass and acrylic toys are often very beautiful and are appealing to those people who like their toys to be as pretty as they are fun.
The University of Ottawa's Couple Research Lab is looking for participants for their online study on same-sex couple relationships! This study aims to better understand personal and relationship factors that contribute to well being and distress in same-sex couples.
To be eligible, you must be 18 years old or more, have a good knowledge of English and be in a same-sex couple relationship for at least 12 months. In order to thank you for your participation, you will be entered in a draw for gift certificates to a music store.
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